It’s that time of year again….Weddings
February 7th, 2010Well folks, as we eagerly await for winter to break, we have arrived at that time of year when we begin the long and arduous task of planning, setting, and of course, selecting the people that will ultimately make our once in a lifetime event come into fruition. The key to a successful event is to focus on your priorities first (the must haves) from the “extras.” In doing so, you’ll be more at ease with the “extras” which may help you to keep within your budget.
One area that should be given an extra thought is your selection of your musical and event director. Now you are probrably saying to yourself “what is he talking about.” I am simply talking about the DJ. He is after all managing the flow of music (Cadance), controlling the appropriate pitch of the music and if he’s a good DJ, directing the event as you have instructed him/her to do. All while making the proper announcemnts as MC for the event as well as coordinatiing the proper timing of the event as well.
Music for a house party with your buddies is one thing. Your Wedding Reception with guests of all ages and tastes requires whole different menu of music. The DJ you give the controls to will be one of the most important choices you make for the success of your once-in-a-lifetime day. Even the cocktail and dinner music can be good, bad, ok… or AWESOME and add lots of sparkle to the atmosphere.
The dilemma you face is that you’ll be able to know what your cake, wine and food will taste like or what your dress, location, flowers and table settings will look like… but despite any promises, sales pitch, price, website, video or music lists, you will not know what the end results from your DJ will be until you live it. Choosing a good DJ is tricky and crucial.
After taking calls from 1000’s of brides-to-be I’ve found that most don’t realize how different the end results can be from different DJs and how many DJs advertising are amateurs. It takes more knowledge and talent than ever to be a truly competent Wedding DJ. Music is the key to your day’s success, but a great DJ also emcees your intros, toasts, first dances, cake, bouquet and garter events. Do you want a pro who does it smoothly and friendly, or an awkward or overly theatrical amateur?
There are fewer and fewer real pros developing because of the vast historical knowledge required, and lots more amateurs than ever advertising because of how easy it’s become to acquire equipment and music libraries. If you hire an amateur, there is a high probability your wedding will be musically choppy, inappropriate or narrow, always fishing for momentum…. and ultimately, a long, boring drag for everyone. Have you been to a wedding like this?
I find that most Brides-To-Be ask only about the price! They assume that ‘all DJs are basically the same’ or that a DJ ‘just plays music and it’s not that hard.’ Making these assumptions and choosing without asking crucial questions can potentially ruin your wedding day.
Hire only a long-time, full-time, career DJ who specializes in Weddings. The best ones are working for themselves and making a living at it because they’re good at it. Ask the Event Managers, Caterers and Photographers for references because they’ve seen them all.
Big caution: DO NOT hire a DJ from an agency with whom you haven’t talked to and/or met with personally first. If agencies typically charge BIG bucks and pay their DJs $15-25/hr, what do you think the actual value of the talent will be that you’ll get at your Wedding? A really good professional DJ would not settle for what an agency typically pays.
Put the DJs you interview on the spot! Pick some of your favorite older artists and ask the DJ to quick name 3 songs by them and test the depth of their knowledge a bit. You’ll find it very revealing to compare how the different DJs you interview respond. Hire the person that knows their stuff and you feel is most honestly passionate about their job, not just trying to close the deal.
Remember, the music will make… or break… your day!
Good luck, I hope you have one of the most wonderful days of your life.